playerslayer666 wrote:original post edited. my assumption was based on a couple of different conversations about this in the forums..... hopfully this DOESN'T become an issue, which is why i made the topic. in hopes of finding a solution to the problem before it becomes a problem.
i thought about it a bit last night and i came to the conclusion that perhaps the game should have an age restriction ( or age advisement ) seen as people are also likely to run into swears in the game.
by " unwanted content " i don't mean just sex scenes. sorry i can't make more of a post i'll be bac on later.
Dudel wrote:I know Cantr ain't puppies and rainbows...
...but do you?
Dudel wrote:Some of us just don't want to deal with "that", even in game....
...but THEY are the ones who should say something to Cantr Staff.
NotesThe "flag thing" is sorta kinda a breach in the CR and would cause more issues then it solves.
Players should be told when another PLAYER is uncomfortable. Recently I had an issue where a player wasn't fully "happy" with the way a character spoke. (He swore a lot) so I toned it down. NOW, I didn't STOP or anything and I did have PD explain that I'm not a total prick like my character is/was but I did try to "tone down" the swearing
some.
NOTHING in character personality is 100% or set in stone. There is NOTHING that says a character can just "forget" swear words for a little bit. There is NOTHING that says the character could change his/her mind upon "doing that", whatever "that" may be.
It is THAT behavior that makes OTHERS uncomfortable. "But my character is a rapist! *whine*"
Well obvious the other PLAYER is not amused, don't be an asshat about it and force things. Move on, the PLAYER wont play along... I've found many who wont play along with simpler things... DEAL OR SHUT UP!
As for the REST OF YOU!
TELL PD OR STFU! I like a GOOD CHUNK of Cantr players but this is STRAIGHT UP STUPID. If YOU, singular, have a problem THEN REPORT IT YOU DUMB IDIOT OF A HUMAN BEING! If you've NOT a problem then WHY ARE YOU BITCHING!?

BarbaricAvatar wrote:Yep, PD doesn't sit around watching every tiny thing that everyone does. So if you have a problem then tell us about it, otherwise we won't know.
If your character is being subjected to something you're not comfortable with (excluding murder, torture and other things that are part of the usual cantr life) like sex or excessive swearing, then tell us about it and i'll sharpen my whip.
Or alternatively OOC the other player to say "please don't, i don't like that" but be careful not to turn it into an IG flame-war.
This is, was, and seems to always will be your answer. You've gotten the answer to "your problem" MULTIPLE times now so please stop the noise.
End of Story!
As for sex whispers: They shouldn't have been going on in the first place but poor game mechanics let the problem persist without any interference from others.