My daily routine:
1. Quick read/scan through what people are saying and doing, looking for: names, attacks (other than with a waster), stealing, someone going through many buildings and leaving, etc. If it's a character/location in a very active town that I don't care about, sometimes I'll just do ctrl f "My name is" and "I am"

, as well as ctrl f "name of my character". If I need to find someone, I look for the last thing they did (sometimes using ctrl f), and if they went in a building that's locked, you can knock or write a note, drop it, and drag it to that building.
2. Make sure you aren't going hungry. Generally people won't let you starve if you ask, and you can usually work for food.
3. I find something to do. If I don't have something to do or a resource to gather, I'll help others. One thing that does is help people know your active.
4. If you're in a place with lots of attacking animals (if the laws allow), hunt. Just make sure hunting isn't the only thing you do (some also rp hunting from time to time).
Tips:
1. Decide what you want to do/make/achieve and do what it takes. Find out who can help (town/organization leader, captain, etc) or travel to another town that can help (or find and gather the resources yourself).
2. Find someone(s) to work/travel with you if you can. You just need something to offer (roleplay, items, love, etc.). With a boat, this isn't very hard.
3. If you're in an organization/town for a long time and are active, chances are you'll end up as some sort of leader and/or gain trust.
4. Especially if tip#3 works out,
make sure that people don't benefit from your death (within reason). Or at least (especially if your character is kind of evil), make sure that there's enough people that want you alive, especially the ones that are able to kill you. Give trust to those who are worth trusting.
Disclaimer: These are just general ideas. You should have variety with your characters. Roleplay takes priority over these tips.