Thought or Rant of the day!!!

General chitchat, advertisements for other services, and other non-Cantr-related topics

Moderators: Public Relations Department, Players Department

playerslayer666
Posts: 717
Joined: Thu May 01, 2008 4:27 pm

Postby playerslayer666 » Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:34 pm

*Wiro wrote:Yeah, like, why aren't there any awesome parents? My mom is just such a bitch and unsubtle and stupid and retarded and so many other things I can't say because I'm CD. lol

oh and step parents are always stupid aren't they?


to answer your questions.....

because the older generation came from an age where things were COMPLETELY different from today so they have flaws that would have been common in those days and today everyone is just like " wtf are you serious you are so incompetant " because their thinking style is......outdated.

also...... yes. and there is a perfectly logical reason for that. they just don't know you the way your real parents do. which can be a shitty thing if you are disabled in some way. ( like me and my mild form of autism )

off topic: Joshua's mini city has only like 50 people in it......EVERYONE CLICK ON HIS SIG LINK AND MAKE DORYISKOM THE BEST MINI CITY IN THE WORLD!!!!

EDIT: PAGE 200! WOOT! go topic go!.....seems like everyone has something to rant about every day.
User avatar
*Wiro
Posts: 5855
Joined: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:24 pm

Postby *Wiro » Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:38 pm

Like Joo once posted in more detail, autism is retarded. I have a slight bit of autism, and things have been blown way out of proportion ever since it was found out. They said I wasn't capable of understanding other's feelings, I wasn't able to make new friends, and so on. But I was, but still I got all the bullshit "help" that made things even worse and worse, and thus I more or less started to believe all the lies, but luckily I got over all that and am now perfectly able to do those things again.

I've gotten help for all kinds of things I didn't need help for, and meanwhile my real flaws were ignored.
Read about my characters by following this link.
User avatar
SekoETC
Posts: 15525
Joined: Wed May 05, 2004 11:07 am
Location: Finland
Contact:

Postby SekoETC » Fri Jun 19, 2009 7:42 pm

How did they "find out"? I've been struggling for years to get an official diagnosis. Now I've gone to a psychologist a couple of times and every time she keeps saying what I'm telling matches the symptoms, but she's not doing any tests and last time she said I should see a doctor but apparently she hasn't managed to arrange an appointment yet.
Not-so-sad panda
User avatar
CN
Posts: 997
Joined: Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:45 pm
Location: Forum Games

Postby CN » Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:47 pm

NaruShadow wrote:
CN wrote:
*Wiro wrote:lol sorry it's not you I love.


:cry:

Day ruiner!


I'll love you! :D


All night long?

:lol: Couldn't help it. I'm a perv. XD
User avatar
*Wiro
Posts: 5855
Joined: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:24 pm

Postby *Wiro » Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:49 pm

I was "different" from everyone else. Then I had to talk to some woman, answer questions, eat snacks and play with toys (or something like that, lol). Back then I didn't know what it was for yet, though. But yeah, it was as simple as that.
Read about my characters by following this link.
playerslayer666
Posts: 717
Joined: Thu May 01, 2008 4:27 pm

Postby playerslayer666 » Fri Jun 19, 2009 8:58 pm

i think people are too quick to assume a person is disabled. not everyone will share the same exact symptoms. they just go by a book and what general knowledge they have not by the person.

Wiro, my advise is nothing but one simple word.......apathy.

it worked for me, and look at me now :P ( ok i am not the best example......just don't let them get to you )
User avatar
SekoETC
Posts: 15525
Joined: Wed May 05, 2004 11:07 am
Location: Finland
Contact:

Postby SekoETC » Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:17 pm

It sucks when my characters feel like doing things that make me feel awkward. :(
Not-so-sad panda
playerslayer666
Posts: 717
Joined: Thu May 01, 2008 4:27 pm

Postby playerslayer666 » Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:28 pm

SekoETC wrote:It sucks when my characters feel like doing things that make me feel awkward. :(


like?......

well, your obviously long past the point where cantr feels more like work and less like a game. any time i have a toon like that they either die OR abandon their duties to the town ( if any ) and do something different but also helpful to the town.
User avatar
Rebma
Posts: 2899
Joined: Tue Aug 12, 2008 6:47 am
Location: Kitchener, ON

Postby Rebma » Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:57 pm

CN wrote:
NaruShadow wrote:
CN wrote:
*Wiro wrote:lol sorry it's not you I love.


:cry:

Day ruiner!


I'll love you! :D


All night long?

:lol: Couldn't help it. I'm a perv. XD
Can I has invite?
kronos wrote:like a nice trim is totally fine. short, neat. I don't want to be fighting through the forests of fangorn and expecting treebeard to come and show me the way in
User avatar
SekoETC
Posts: 15525
Joined: Wed May 05, 2004 11:07 am
Location: Finland
Contact:

Postby SekoETC » Sat Jun 20, 2009 12:02 am

playerslayer666 wrote:like?......

Often my characters feel sexually attracted to someone who doesn't feel the same. It's even more awkward if it's same sex attraction. I can't play naturally if I have to worry about the other player behind the character.
Not-so-sad panda
playerslayer666
Posts: 717
Joined: Thu May 01, 2008 4:27 pm

Postby playerslayer666 » Sat Jun 20, 2009 12:18 am

SekoETC wrote:
playerslayer666 wrote:like?......

Often my characters feel sexually attracted to someone who doesn't feel the same. It's even more awkward if it's same sex attraction. I can't play naturally if I have to worry about the other player behind the character.


that IS a problem even if it's not the same sex. BUT i can't see why you have to worry about the other player if they already don't feel the same way IC unless your attempting to make moves on them. and if so, simple solution......don't. then there is no awkwardness.

of course, it's not always that simple......certain situations are different.

EDIT: um.....is there something i am not understanding cause it doesn't sound complicated to me.
User avatar
CN
Posts: 997
Joined: Fri Oct 17, 2008 11:45 pm
Location: Forum Games

Postby CN » Sat Jun 20, 2009 12:24 am

Rebma19 wrote:
CN wrote:
NaruShadow wrote:
CN wrote:
*Wiro wrote:lol sorry it's not you I love.


:cry:

Day ruiner!


I'll love you! :D


All night long?

:lol: Couldn't help it. I'm a perv. XD
Can I has invite?


Of course, Rebma! Wouldn't dare have all night lovin' without you. :D
User avatar
SekoETC
Posts: 15525
Joined: Wed May 05, 2004 11:07 am
Location: Finland
Contact:

Postby SekoETC » Sat Jun 20, 2009 12:38 am

playerslayer666 wrote:that IS a problem even if it's not the same sex. BUT i can't see why you have to worry about the other player if they already don't feel the same way IC unless your attempting to make moves on them. and if so, simple solution......don't. then there is no awkwardness.

of course, it's not always that simple......certain situations are different.

EDIT: um.....is there something i am not understanding cause it doesn't sound complicated to me.


Well in most cases the character understands that putting their own desires ahead of what other people want would make them a bad person, so they either talk first to find out if the other person is consenting and back off (embarrassed) if not, or assume the other person wouldn't like it and don't ask in the first place. But when it's about a character who has already raped two people in the past, he wouldn't care about how the victim feels. The only reason he wouldn't go all the way through is because something was making him feel awkward. But the thing is I can't test where his personal limit goes if the victim's player is non-consenting.
Not-so-sad panda
playerslayer666
Posts: 717
Joined: Thu May 01, 2008 4:27 pm

Postby playerslayer666 » Sat Jun 20, 2009 3:20 am

SekoETC wrote:
playerslayer666 wrote:that IS a problem even if it's not the same sex. BUT i can't see why you have to worry about the other player if they already don't feel the same way IC unless your attempting to make moves on them. and if so, simple solution......don't. then there is no awkwardness.

of course, it's not always that simple......certain situations are different.

EDIT: um.....is there something i am not understanding cause it doesn't sound complicated to me.


Well in most cases the character understands that putting their own desires ahead of what other people want would make them a bad person, so they either talk first to find out if the other person is consenting and back off (embarrassed) if not, or assume the other person wouldn't like it and don't ask in the first place. But when it's about a character who has already raped two people in the past, he wouldn't care about how the victim feels. The only reason he wouldn't go all the way through is because something was making him feel awkward. But the thing is I can't test where his personal limit goes if the victim's player is non-consenting.


hmmm..... how about you just start with something like ** kisses her agressively ** and see how the character reacts. THEN ask the player if it's ok to do a rape scene. if the response is negative then both players will have to pretend it actually happened ( even though it did not ) so when they ask the other players character what happened the character will say she was raped even though it never happened.

that's the only solution in my mind.....IC, it happened. OOC, it was never role played.
User avatar
SekoETC
Posts: 15525
Joined: Wed May 05, 2004 11:07 am
Location: Finland
Contact:

Postby SekoETC » Sat Jun 20, 2009 3:32 am

For some people even pretending is too much, or so I assume.
Not-so-sad panda

Return to “Non-Cantr-Related Discussion”

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest