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- SekoETC
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Seriously, 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex. In my country even some 10 year olds are doing it. It's creepy. People should only have sex once they're mature enough to deal with the possible consequences, including the fact that the person you gave your virginity to doesn't necessarily plan to spend the rest of their life with you even if they said that they love you and sent you links to pictures of engagement rings. Maybe you people have forgotten your first love but I haven't. After that it doesn't feel the same. You can't trust people the same way. Wouldn't you rather want to give people a chance to try having a relationship with a person who's actually planning to make it last? Oh except that I guess a lot of people nowadays just want sex and not a relationship. At least that's what they claim. I bet they still feel bad when they're abandoned.
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- Rebma
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Actually Seko, you do raise a good point. Not saying it doesn't work once in awhile. I knew someone who started dating her boyfriend at 14 and at 25 they are still together and getting married. *shrugs*
I think it doesn't matter which age, the first one rarely works, but if you are older, maybe you can wrap your head around it better. I have also seen a lot of girls do it early on, and think the guy is the end all of everything, and then two months later "C ya!".
I turned out to not love my first love. Once I realized that I was in love with the sex, not him, I left. Life is weird. Relationships make me sick.
I think it doesn't matter which age, the first one rarely works, but if you are older, maybe you can wrap your head around it better. I have also seen a lot of girls do it early on, and think the guy is the end all of everything, and then two months later "C ya!".
I turned out to not love my first love. Once I realized that I was in love with the sex, not him, I left. Life is weird. Relationships make me sick.
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- Dudel
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Haha Dudel doesn't have those problems. I have never been 'in love' have never fooled myself into thinking I was 'in love' and do my damdest not to let it happen.
Also about the sex thing. Not one of Dudel's problems seeing as how I believe if you never get it your not missing anything. (So far I am correct) I've seen so many of my friends change and never for the better after said sex that I avoid that too. I like Dudel to be Dudel! Don't wan't to be someone else over something as disgusting as sex. (Fluids everywhere blah no thank you!)
I'll keep whats left of my childhood in tact as long as I can. That includes my love for games my childlike behavior and my virginity.
I enjoy these things AND NO ONE CAN HAVE THEM!
I guess in that sence then I agree with Seko as I am not mature enough to deal with the possible consequences so I do not do said act.
Also about the sex thing. Not one of Dudel's problems seeing as how I believe if you never get it your not missing anything. (So far I am correct) I've seen so many of my friends change and never for the better after said sex that I avoid that too. I like Dudel to be Dudel! Don't wan't to be someone else over something as disgusting as sex. (Fluids everywhere blah no thank you!)
I'll keep whats left of my childhood in tact as long as I can. That includes my love for games my childlike behavior and my virginity.
I enjoy these things AND NO ONE CAN HAVE THEM!
I guess in that sence then I agree with Seko as I am not mature enough to deal with the possible consequences so I do not do said act.
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A lot of kids my age (14) think it's normal to do it. I think it's because they think that just because all they can do is love eachother, hug and kiss, they should have sex because they're bored of just that.
But why must they have real sex right away? Just a little bit further, bit by bit. That's what I would do. And even though sometimes the idea of just having sex with someone in the toilet (hey, I'm 14!
) pops up in my mind, doesn't mean that's what I truly want.
Perhaps they just don't know where to draw the line between "just some fantasies" and "real love". I know I do. Maybe a bit too extreme, but at least I'll enjoy my very first time, WITH the one I love.
Oh and about the 10 year olds doing it, doesn't that like.. happen everywhere now? Or maybe it's just some countries in Europe.
This reminds me of that time my mom was watching Oprah and I was playing some game (on my GBA, I think) while secretly watching, too.
And there was this boy who had sex with like, 20 girls and he was 13! He started doing that when he was EIGHT YEARS OLD. I was like wtf.
Oprah left a good impression on me there and perhaps that was one of the things that kept me from falling in love too easily and 'dive in' right away.
But why must they have real sex right away? Just a little bit further, bit by bit. That's what I would do. And even though sometimes the idea of just having sex with someone in the toilet (hey, I'm 14!
Perhaps they just don't know where to draw the line between "just some fantasies" and "real love". I know I do. Maybe a bit too extreme, but at least I'll enjoy my very first time, WITH the one I love.
Oh and about the 10 year olds doing it, doesn't that like.. happen everywhere now? Or maybe it's just some countries in Europe.
This reminds me of that time my mom was watching Oprah and I was playing some game (on my GBA, I think) while secretly watching, too.
And there was this boy who had sex with like, 20 girls and he was 13! He started doing that when he was EIGHT YEARS OLD. I was like wtf.
Oprah left a good impression on me there and perhaps that was one of the things that kept me from falling in love too easily and 'dive in' right away.
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There would be no problem with 14 years old having sex if the bastards use condoms. Lack of sexual education also worsens things, making some more 'inocent' girls and boys to think pregnancy is like in Juno.
As to sex itself, I think my opinion is similar to that of Wiro.
(Rant: Wiro called Europe 'a horrible place'... Dun mess with the Old World, cowboy. *angry far western look* )
As to sex itself, I think my opinion is similar to that of Wiro.
(Rant: Wiro called Europe 'a horrible place'... Dun mess with the Old World, cowboy. *angry far western look* )
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- *Wiro
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Europe kills itself. I must say America is doing the same thing even faster, though.
But let's not talk about that now. We have to talk more about sex so Dudel freaks out. It's cute.
But let's not talk about that now. We have to talk more about sex so Dudel freaks out. It's cute.
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<u>Two Things:</u>
Wiro: Um... no and NO! (The cute comment almost made me nausous)
I would like to say that the way its thrown at me via advertisment etc does make me sometimes wonder if I am the freak actually avoiding as much human contact as possible. Then I remember that I enjoy my solitude and generally don't like people. I wish the tele would respect my third Dudeism. (Which is why I don't watch much) OH! *wonders into grant a wish game*
Wiro: Um... no and NO! (The cute comment almost made me nausous)
I would like to say that the way its thrown at me via advertisment etc does make me sometimes wonder if I am the freak actually avoiding as much human contact as possible. Then I remember that I enjoy my solitude and generally don't like people. I wish the tele would respect my third Dudeism. (Which is why I don't watch much) OH! *wonders into grant a wish game*
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Dudel is really cute when he goes "No!" and him referring to himself is really cute too. [/inlove]

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*pats Dudel on the head* You're so cute with your little mannerisms, Dudel! So cuteeee!!
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