I've read all this and the player RPing the child is out of the question!
Who choses whether the mother or the father RP's it? Unfair!
Is it shared? Stupid!
What happens when the baby hits adulthood? CRB!
Do they have to split up, as in the new 20 year old child, and parents? Unrealistic RP and removing the point of babies!
So why are we still even discussing this particular section of this idea? Notsure
So, how about this guys.
There is a project for a child. It takes 1 day for the mother and father to attempt, it may or may not fail depending on certain variables. Then, once that is done, a compulsary, but abortable, project is begun by the mother, spanning 14 days (close enough to the Cantr-equivalent of 9 months). The mother cannot move (unless dragged) and cannot work on projects during this period (which is RP-safe and RP-fair).
In the meantime, players who've played for over 200 days (so they could potentially have a character in their thirties at the least) can click a button that is next to Create Character, it reads Opt for Child, or something similar.
The players that click this button are put in a compiled list.
When a woman's project for a child is complete, this 'compiled list' is referred to, and a player is picked at random.
The mother sets a name that is unchangable for the child, and the child is born.
Time passes much faster for a child. It takes 3-5 Cantr years to become a man in his twenties (otherwise it would get severely boring).
The child cannot speak until he/she is 3 years old. During this period, the child is also dependant upon the mother for food, as the child cannot harvest food or work on projects (of course!! hehe). The child can hold up to 2,000 grams of anything though, and also cannot move from birth till three years old. The child can only drop things. (as some random ass could just give the child 2,000 grams of sand when born!!! which equals no food

) They also have a maximum of 30% health. They are seen as exactly what the mother names them. This can only be changed by the mother.
During the final two years of a child's life, the child can talk, can hold up to 8,000 grams of anything and can pick up and drop things. They have dynamic naming so you now see 'A child' rather than the preset name by the mother. They have a maximum of 70% health now. They can, at last, move around, enter buildings, and leave locations. However, they walk
very slowly.
This entire idea would be hard to implement, but of course it's a major task and hence it comes at no surprise that the immensity of this idea will take some time.