
I know I do them both, for my characters, based on how the other character RPs. If they start with romantic stuff, I continue with it. If they start with dirty stuff, well, I follow. I perfer romantic, because there's a lot more descriptive words, and getting a post that's three pages long is awesome, it's so much to read, so descriptive, you can easily picture what's going on (Not just in sex, also.)