Bucanan wrote:Everyone should respect the other player’s choice, [...] But the problem start when, for some kind of reason, other characters question another character roleplay instead of trying to adapt themselves and get used to this new role-play.
I maybe misunderstood it, because it feels contradictory to me: they should adapt to my roleplay vs. everyone should respect the other player’s choice
Why should I expect someone to adapt to my roleplay? I for sure won't feel forced to participate in something that doesn't interest me so I can't expect the rest of players to adapt to what I envisioned only because I think it's fun/interesting/original (and after more than 12 years, very few things or character types are really original). Some will like my character/concept and the way I flesh it out and will play along and others won't be interested or will dislike the way it's done and won't interact often, if ever, with it.
Lame example: imagine I decide to spawn a redhead and she appears in a town where redheads are considered evil for whatever reason. I had a background story and great plans for that character, but she's dragged to a moldy cell or dismembered with a battle axe on a stone altar. I, as a player, will probably think "oh, bummer, I had big hopes for that one", but why should the characters in that town abandon their customs and previous roleplay to adapt to what I had in mind?
Another lame example (and I bet we all have a few of this type in mind): I spawn a character that I believe is the most interest thing ever and the people around mostly ignore it and barely get engaged in those oh-so-amazing interactions, so I get all sulky and throw a fit about it. Well, maybe the rest of people don't find it that interesting? This is a game, we are all here for the fun, but we can't inflict our fun or our concept of a good character on other people almost against their will!
It's a game, it's supposed to be fun for all and, as long as no one breaks the rules (really, they're very few and very simple) every kind of character adds something to the game, you just take what brings you pleasure and disregard the rest.
Edit to add: I'm not talking here about anyone questioning OOCly other player's roleplay (hell, it's a rpgame, as long as you follow the rules there's no right or wrong way to do it and there's no reason to be judgmental about it. Unless you're not having fun, then you're probably doing it wrong) but about characters not acknowledging it.