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Gender crisis!!! Eek!

Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 8:41 pm
by SekoETC
Ok, it happens so many times somebody mistakes me as a guy that I just gotta post this... Sometimes I wonder about it too. Much is based on nicks, not many girls name themselves after a male charrie though Seko is quite neutral (it means loonie in Finnish). And in many places I name myself after lizards that can also be confusing.
Anyway, according to my ID I am a female.. my mother says I was born female too, though I keep doubting that every other day, at least after seeing the document in telly about the androgynous people.
At the moment I think I'm straight. At least 50% I have a boyfriend, been together five months. I've never dated a girl... Ok, I must admit I have had secret crushes on girls... :oops: Does that count when you fell in love with an rp character who is a woman? I've been there a couple of times.. Actually, it's so hard when you don't know if the feelings are towards the character or the player behind....... Ok, I'll stop now before I get totally embarassed.

Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 8:49 pm
by .::. MysticGötén .::.
Somehow I feel that I am the cause for you to make this topic :roll:

I just imagine who someone is and what they are like, how old they are etc etc when I see their names and how they act, or write.. I have a rather lively imagination. I thought you were a guy, but that is my fault, it has nothing to do with you :wink:

Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 8:54 pm
by SekoETC
Yeah you did bring this up but there are others too.. that tend to think I'm a guy.. And then they get surprised when I'm not.

Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 9:48 pm
by nitefyre
SekoETC wrote:Yeah you did bring this up but there are others too.. that tend to think I'm a guy.. And then they get surprised when I'm not.


I thought you were a girl...because of your avatar. SekoETC...I have no clue the hell that is... heh. Loonie et cetera? I've been confused about other people on the forums...maybe part of the sidebar should be male of female.

Is Avatar of Meisora a female?
Kroner, I was confused at first, I mean the "sneaker" is kinda....

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 1:40 am
by sammigurl61190
Until I read this, I thought you were a guy. That's not a bad thing at all though.

Your sexuality isn't based on a few crushes on girls. Hell, I've had crushes on girls. I think labeling your sexuality is stupid. Bisexual, homosexual, heterosexual, curious, blah blah blah. It makes no difference to me, and I don't think it should make a difference to you either. Questioning your sexuality is part of life. What matters are the people, not the label associated to you if you're attrated to males or females.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 1:46 am
by Missy
I thought you were a boy until you posted on the topic about periods. :P

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:00 am
by trage
:lol: I never thought you were a guy >.>;;;; never. Missy shush :P.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:09 am
by Mavsfan911
I thought you were a girlish-type thing in the first place.....
*shuts up*

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:11 am
by sammigurl61190
Missy wrote:I thought you were a boy until you posted on the topic about periods. :P


There was a topic about periods while I was gone? I should have posted there!!

Damn cramps. :lol:

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:13 am
by Mavsfan911
*fakes a TV voice*
Did you know there's a new pill that will allow you to have just 4 periods a year? It's FDA approved!

Cripes I hate that commerical, then they start flinging the period things like frisbees and all, and that's just overkill.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:13 am
by nitefyre
sammigurl61190 wrote:
Missy wrote:I thought you were a boy until you posted on the topic about periods. :P


There was a topic about periods while I was gone? I should have posted there!!

Damn cramps. :lol:


We could do without the girls only topic.

And no, I'm not envious.

I don't have to live by a calnder. :P

I didn't quite think Seko was the girlish type either Mavs.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:16 am
by Mavsfan911
I meant I thought she WAS, the, erm, girlish type thing.
*nudges Nitefyre*
Shush before I get knifed.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:32 am
by sammigurl61190
Yes, I do know about the pill. I'm talking with my doctor on Monday to get it. :)

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 3:12 am
by Sniper
I always thought you were a girl and after meeting your artistic character there was no doubt.

Posted: Sat Aug 14, 2004 4:16 am
by Mavsfan911
sammigurl61190 wrote:Yes, I do know about the pill. I'm talking with my doctor on Monday to get it. :)


:roll:
That's great... Glad I know that...heh