Gender crisis!!! Eek!

[Psycho Pixie]

just type it into a search engine and i am sure you will find it someplace on the internet to listen to it.


PsPi

[AoM]

I guess I hadn't seen this topic when it first started... but something did catch my eye as I read it.

nitefyre asked if I was female. I'm not. Was wondering if you thought I was and why?

And no, I don't feel as if my manhood has been questioned. ^_^

~AoM

[nitefyre]

I guess I hadn't seen this topic when it first started... but something did catch my eye as I read it.

nitefyre asked if I was female. I'm not. Was wondering if you thought I was and why?

And no, I don't feel as if my manhood has been questioned. ^_^

~AoM

I don't recall exactly, but on one of the posts, you wrote something that I thought sounded like you were including yourself in the female numbers.

The net is deceiving so no offense.

[RisingPathMilitia]

I've always thought of you as a nice young lady Seko. Seko, I like that. Like psycho in english, same meaning too. I just learned a new word .

I really don't care who's on the other side of the screen. As long as they're polite and respectful, it doesn't matter to me. I'm not looking to "hook up" with anyone, because I've got wife and family.

Fags are for burning. I light one up every morning, and take a drag. Does that mean I'm gay. Only on a heavy dark forcast with violent thunder showers. Those make my day.

[SekoETC]

*Sigh* Maybe I'm just over tired but I'm getting doubtful again. The problem is I do not quite know how to be friends with girls. When I was a kid, most of my buddies were boys, including my best friend. In pre-school I didn't get along with people at all, I was but a shadow following the teachers around and when they asked who was my best friend, I told the name of the girl whom I found most interesting in my class though I don't think I ever even talked to her. Later I had a friend for half a year but she was two years younger than me.
Elementary school: You know the drill, boys have cooties so you can't go anywhere near them. One girl just game by to ask on first grade if I wanted to be friends and then we were for years. I also made friends with her best buddy from kindergarten, the three of us formed many secret clubs that really did nothing. We were different from the other girls somehow, liked building huts and climbing trees.
In junior high I forgot how to be with people, totally. It hadn't been necessary to make friends with new people for years and then suddenly there was all these people trying to steal my best friend from me. There was this one girl everyone hated, she was my friend though we fighted every other day. (In musics class she kept putting her hands on my desk, I thought it was annoying and I poked her fingers but she didn't care, just smiled and kept irritating me.) I hated boys. Half of them were joined in an alliance against me, trying to break me mentally. They must have succeeded eventually.
Senior high: The old friends had found new ones instead of me and it was too hard to keep hold of them. I didn't know how to get new ones. I don't think I have ever gone to someone and said "You wanna be my friend?" No, I always wait for them to make the initiative. I tried to be visible, talked a lot, dyed my hair, got special clothes and all... But still I'm sosially so clumsy that nothing works.
Jump to today: My social contacts are still mostly in the Internet, or started from the Net. Looking at my contact list on Yahoo, there are eight guys and Heather... And I don't think it's just because majority of players in Cantr are male. I haven't opened ICQ for a long time but in there.. hmm, three or four guys and this girl who used to be my best mate - Last time I contacted her was one and a half weeks ago, with SMS. I couldn't dream of calling her. It's too frightening. In school I mostly talk to myself or the teacher, or just commonly... I make comments, never directing them to anyone special. People always stare at me after a while when I've said something, maybe I talk so bad they have a hard time understanding.

[nitefyre]

It doesn't matter what gender your friends are, I have 2 (relatively close) friends who are girls. Heheh, I even named a character after one of em (after getting permission) as well as a fair amount of friends who are male. Some of us shared little in common when we met, but for example, one of my friends is solely responsible for me ever listening to music.

It shouldn't matter who you talk to, evil teachers or who not And plus, I like considering you one of my cantr friends. So kick ass, don't worry about that stuff.

[Pirate Lass]

Seko, out of the 28 people on my yahoo contact list - three are female.

I tend to have more male friends outside of the net as well, not sure why, I just do. *shrug*

Lass

[Mavsfan911]

I have a fair balance of male/female friends. It seems I'm closer to a couple female friends, than the male side. I've been around them my whole life, but it's about 50/50.

[Revanael]

I generally trust my female friends more than my male ones. I haven't counted them, but at last check there were more female people on my phone than male. And ALL of them purely friends.

And for no known reason, my brothers current GF and also his ex-GF both are on my phone.

[SekoETC]

To make things even more confusing, this morning I had a dream in which I was having lesbian sex with my ex best friend.. Ok people say it's normal but I've never heard someone I know confessing they ever had such dreams. Are they just keeping them to themselves?

[Chrissy]

To make things even more confusing, this morning I had a dream in which I was having lesbian sex with my ex best friend.. Ok people say it's normal but I've never heard someone I know confessing they ever had such dreams. Are they just keeping them to themselves?

I have some input. How old are you for starters?

[nitefyre]

It might be better to keep that kinda information private. [Rex1] (referring to the dream and such)

Rex2: In order to disprove Chrissy, I'm just gonna hafta to edit this post to answer her question. I definetly think it's your imagination.

Rex3: Yeah, I noticed how ambiguous my response was Mr. Pickert, and attempted to clarify.

Rex4: I in no way said you'd go into an explicit response, I was merely opinionating that the dream might be something, if it were me, that I'd want to be kept personal. It's definetly her choice, and she made it.

Rex5: Also, I am not asking you to bury it, so I don't see what you're on about.

Rex6: Referring to

You do post after everything I say.

No, I haven't in those terms, posted after your last two posts. I have in fact edited this one to respond though.

[Chrissy]

Nitefyre.... is it my imagination, or do you post 99.9% of the time right after I do?

I have some solid advice for those who might be interested. I turned 27 a week ago so I have a little bit of knowledge on some things. I love to share it. I believe it takes a village to raise a child. Same theory applies to adults. I love learning something new from people who know, I imagine others would.

[Thomas Pickert]

I believe, Nitefyre was jokingly pointing at the fact that Seko is a minor, while assuming in good humor that your input might be considered unsuitable for young ones.

[edit: Nitefyre made himself clear already, by editing his post.]

[Chrissy]

It might be better to keep that kinda information private. (referring to the dream and such)

Re: In order to disprove Chrissy, I'm just gonna hafta to edit this post to answer her question. I definetly think it's your imagination.

Rex2: Yeah, I noticed how ambiguous my response was Mr. Pickert, and attempted to clarify.

I'm not buying it. You completly changed your post. You do post after everything I say. Everything. With all due respect Thomas .. as if I would go into some sort of explicit response to her question. I wouldn't. I am more then happy to share advice on sexuality or religion. I'm in a good place because of age and experience and the only way humans can advance is by sharing that with each other.

I've heard a lot more messed up stuff on here then this perfectly human, natural conversation, I hope not to be sensored on something so natural.