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Public Apology

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:30 am
by returner
First off.. this may / may not be exactly Cantr related, but it's where it'll receive the most views, so I'm sorry but I'd really like to get this message out to everyone.


As of late, I've turned into a real nasty piece of work. I've trolled, spammed, abused, and really annoyed people, and I want to say I'm very, very sorry.

There's a lot going on in my life at the moment I guess, and Cantr discussion forums were my way to vent. And it worked.. :cry:

To Dudel, I'm sorry. Keep doing your thing. You do bring a new perspective to the forum - an upbeat, happy approach. It IS good. You ARE a good person. I'm sorry.

To MartialAngel, I'm sorry for turning our good relations bad, sorry for the abuse, etc etc. You of all people could probably notice my quick decline into angry, abusiveness through the declining tone of my PM's.. I am sorry.

To mikki, and any others I abused or was annoying to, I apologise.

I sincerely am sorry for my actions over the past few weeks, and I don't expect forgiveness yet.. I want to show you that I am considerate, I am thoughtful and I am .. nice. :P I'll show you this through my posts over the next month. I can listen to other people's opinions and I find other's opinions to be most important if one wants to get anywhere in life.

This was not the normal me.

Again, sorry - forgiveness would be lovely but not expected :( :P :(

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:41 am
by tiddy ogg
Well done, Returner. I've ignored most of these nursery squabbles, and thus maybe can find it easier to say this, but congratulations on acknowledging your mistakes. Good luck with your life and Cantring.

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:09 am
by Dudel
WHAT!?

I think not with the deleting of my posts.

Tuesday, watch.

If he doesn't return to old behaviors by then... I'll bite my tongue from then on and accept the harshest of punishments for any action I may do.

If he DOES, I expect to be listened to when a problem is pointed out in the future.

STILL four days!

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:22 am
by returner
<3 you

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 11:57 am
by mikki
Haha.. Dudel,

IF he were to turn back into his annoying self, he is now going to bite his tongue for the next 4 days just to spite you!! :lol: :lol:

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 2:46 pm
by returner
Haha, exactly!

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 4:34 pm
by Snake_byte
Well that post was definitely an improvement, Dudel. Thank you.

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:23 pm
by Dudel
mikki wrote:Haha.. Dudel,

IF he were to turn back into his annoying self, he is now going to bite his tongue for the next 4 days just to spite you!! :lol: :lol:


I highly doubt he'll make it. Or he'll just do as he's been with myself and sending rude PMs in an attempt to irritate in this manner.

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 11:15 pm
by returner
Well Dudel, I actually tried to make amends with you via PM with a friendly ending but you kept going with it.

Now I'm ignoring your PM's and posts as, even though you're 4 years older than me, you're much more immature and I'm not going to continue with this crap.

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 11:23 pm
by Cdls
mikki wrote:Haha.. Dudel,

IF he were to turn back into his annoying self, he is now going to bite his tongue for the next 4 days just to spite you!! :lol: :lol:
Dudel wrote:
I highly doubt he'll make it. Or he'll just do as he's been with myself and sending rude PMs in an attempt to irritate in this manner.



These are the types of comments that inflame a situation that he (Returner) has taken responsibility for, and it is counterproductive and immature to continue with them. This will not continue and any posts that attempt to inflame the situation will be removed.


With that being said, thank you Returner for taking the first steps, it certainly is appreciated.

Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 2:16 am
by returner
Thanks for your positive contribution Idriveayugo :P :lol:

Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 3:05 am
by Idriveayugo
It's what I'm known for.

Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:10 am
by Dudel
:roll: