thanks for the link, gejyspa!
i can only guess why the figures there are so different from ours - but much more interesting are the quotes imho.
they partly confirm my experiences in cantr, and even more my experiences with online gaming in general. before i started playing cantr i played strategical games, where gender is not important ingame, but nevertheless on the forums and IRC (just as in RL^^), where organization of teams and alliances and diplomacy among them takes place.
when i chose the name "KAOS" almost 6 years ago, this was an idea of the moment and i thought it could be better to have kind of a "gender-neutral" name. that simple decision which i considered to be unimportant caused lots of situations over the years which forced me to reflect more about gender stereotypes and also about my own gender identity.
and today, THIS is what attracts me about playing both female and male chars. in general, i think, the more your characters differ from you, the more you will learn about yourself.
(quotes from that poll posted by gejyspa)
I felt that I was taken a little more seriously. When I play my male characters, other male members of the party will listen to me better, take me more seriously. In my male form I could give orders and have them listened to, where as a female, my characters aren't always taken quite as seriously.
I'm amazed how throughtless some people can be, how amazingly inept men are at flirting and starting a conversation with a female, and how it really does take more effort to be taken seriousely as a female versus a male.
so true..
Personally, you recieve a LOT more stuff when you start out as a female.
also true^^
one of my male cantr-chars lives in a town with a guy who treats him in a polite, but very indifferent way (i have the feeling of a "hidden rivalry", but i can't really tell), while there is a woman, not paying much attention to this guy, who is treated much better by him. so what happens? my character doesn't care at all, so this will have no effect on my rp, but I DO CARE!

i caught myself getting really angry about this situation, though i know it's ridiculous.
but it's still worth thinking about it: seems, that i am used to get attention just for being female. i'm not exceptional pretty or something, just "normal" and i don't dress up ..uhm.. so much, you know, like all the girls do today

this is partly because i just like dressing up when i'm in the mood for it (and that is NOT every day^^) and partly because i am a technician and am mostly with males, even in my free time, so i think i wouldn't be accepted so well and wouldn't be taken seriously if i'd look sexy. however, back to that attention given to me no matter how i dress: even if i hate it sometimes, i feel like something's wrong when i don't get it. so, that shows i am more involved in "that gender stuff" than i realized before. can't be wrong to remind myself from time to time.^^
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