Is it common for new players to leave? I don't think a <i>single</i> new player that has asked me for help has stayed . . .

I'm not that great of a choice to help if they expect an immediate answer, but I guess a couple of my characters show up first on the people list . . .
I'm not doing something to scare away the new players, am I?

This character has not done anything since she talked to me, and will probably starve now:
1195-4: a woman in her twenties says to you: "Hello, I am very confused about what to do. Got any advise?"
[Random knocking, pointing, and she passed me a note]
1196-2: You say to a woman in her twenties: "Hello, I am Danielle Morris. Could I get your name, please? I suggest that you first try farming some potatoes so you don't starve. Start a 1-day (800 gram) project to get potatoes, and I will give you one day's worth of food until you can finish. Make sure to read the laws on the ground, and you should probably not knock on doors unless you want to talk to whomever is inside. Is there anything else you need help with? OOC: And welcome to Cantr.

Make sure you've read the FAQ and all the other information, and if you want more help, you might get a quicker response on the forum."